Heyoo! I am a 26 yo trans man just coming to terms with the idea that my style of love extends beyond just monogamy (ambiamorous? Is that a word?). I am just wondering if there are many spaces for trans men to be welcomed in a polyamorous dating sense. It is rough enough finding other Canadian poly people, but then when I do find spaces that seem inclusive anyone there says that they are almost always seeking women, which makes me feel useless and dysphoric... am I alone in that? Additionally, most places seem to focus on hookups and I am too early in my transition to feel confident in my body. Are there spaces that just focus on talking and meeting people?

Sorry to be a bother. I am just feeling really lost and stuck. Thanks for reading and any comments that you all have.