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So I had an odd relationship last year, bc of pandemic is was mostly digital.
We saw each other once after 4 months but she broke it off (mostly bc she felt I didn't reciprocate her feelings, from weird shit like the emojis I used). It was really confusing and my self esteem took a hit from some things she said and it made me question my own perception of reality and how I relate to people. We talked a lot and I thought cleared things up, since distance does make things murkier.
But yeah, second time she did this breaking it off thing when the week before we were excitedly planning a second date, and I kinda gave up, despite being ready to officially ask her to be my gf (did a cute painting to give her and everything). I mean if she says she really likes me but is ready to break things off for what she thinks I feel for the second time instead of waiting two days and see each other, we clearly have many incompatibilities and different meanings about what is to like someone and wanting to commit.
After this second breakup she stopped following me on social media but kept stalking me daily since she liked all my stuff and commented some of my stories. That was kinda funny to me, I'm ok with keeping contact and still following the person, but the unfollow daily stalk was odd.
Now about 2 months after the breakup she started commenting stuff on my pics like: "when will u take me there? 😍😍😍"
and when I confronted her she asked for another chance, sent me a weird 3min video of her face while she painted, it was just her smiling and tripping to a music I had sent her.
I mean she is gorgeous, I liked talking to her and chemistry was fire.
Buuuuut it's too much crazy right? If it's like this unstable after seeing each other once, imagine if things get more serious?
I have to admit that is a little validating after the things she said before, and having someone after me is not something I'm used to. I haven't answered the video and painting yet. It's enticing to keep talking to her but I don't know if it's the best idea, expecially like I feel like she'd want to get back to the level things were, and I'm far away from there.
That's it pretty much, I don't have many people who I can talk IRL and my bf prefers his distance about emotional stuff with other partners.
I guess I wanted some opinions, or if someone can share their stories about weird shit Exes did while trying to get back toguether :)
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