So this person I've been talking to for about 04 months, it was mostly digital bc of pandemic, we saw each other one time and it was awesome, chemistry was amazing and sex mindblowing. I stayed in another city for a month and now I'm back and we were planning on seeing each other again.

Things seemed great, we were talking a lot more and having affectionate moments, she actually asked me to be her gf by message in a jokey way. I told her that made my heart skip a beat, asked her what would that mean to her and our relationship and that I'd like to talk about it more in person... I got very giddy, hand painted an ecobag with a inside joke of ours and was planning on giving to her this monday when we saw each other and make the ask for her to be my gf.

But yesterday when I messaged her to confirm the time of the date, she said it wasn't going to happen bc she wanted to stay more at home and wanted to disconnect from WhatsApp and social media so we couldn't talk anymore either (?).

I kinda give up after this point, it's not the first time something like that happens, that things seem fine, she initiates the next meet up, leaves me all hopefull and happy and midway changes her attitude.

The first time it was a misunderstanding bc of something I said, that made her think I was not into her, we talked a lot and I tought we solved it. But apparently this is how she operates, acts all mushy and like she can't wait to see me and just completely change. UGH.

How about you guys? Any story to share?