So my primary and I have been together for 5 months been years and things have been good, so far, we moved together been through me graduating college etc. We have been poly/ in an open relationship for 3 years (we started mono) but lately I've been wondering if I'm still in love with him. Recently it just seems like he's SO needy and I'm just not in the mood to give affection, we are kind of incompatible sexually as well. Don't get me wrong he is my best friend and I enjoy joking around with him and laughing but it seems like thats about the limit of what I feel lately. Sometimes sex is fun with him but most of the times I just do it to get it over with because its just easier that way. He has another partner and so do I, most nights I wish I was spending time with my secondary partner or getting out of my apartment and finding a new partner. I'm not sure if this is NRE disguised as falling out of love or what? We don't do much of anything to bond anymore, I tried playing Frisbee golf with him to bond but it doesn't capture my attention. I'm honestly just kind of going through the motions with him most days. And every once and a while he willing ask things like 'why don't you make out with me anymore?' Or I pull away from a kiss or something and he gets super upset. I'm not entirely sure what to do, I've been with him for so long I think I'm just comfortable plus we are financially dependent on each other. What do I do?