So my primary partner and I are fluid bonded and in the past we have agreed to use condoms with outside partners always but we do not need to use condoms with eachother. Ive just been tested and have come up with negative on everything (except for herpes I don't know my status most places wont test unless you are having symptoms) I thought we were being safe enough but recently I've been thinking about how neither of us use condoms for oral to me this doesn't seem safe. We are both kinky and exploring, were looking for regular play partners and would like the opportunity to engage in group sex if the opportunity comes up. I will not lie I do sometimes like to have casual hookups but I will stop that practice if it means I'm putting my partner at risk. What is a good way for us to approach oral and still have fun? I was thinking I could use a condom for oral with casual hookups but for long term play partners we could exchange std paperwork and talk about what other partners we are seeing and how frequently. How 'recent' is reasonable to ask for an STD test? Two months, three months? A month? I want to be able to sleep with multiple people and explore while keeping myself and my partner safe. I am a bisexual/pansexual woman and I mostly hook up with cis men it's rare that I find a woman, or nonbinary person to play with BUT should I try to get on Prep? Would I be able to?