Hey there!

So i bought the jealousy workbook, because i have an open relationship but still struggling with jealousy and i don’t really know why!

I would not say i am polyamorous per se, but i am not monogamous. I love my partner, he is my best friend and my soulmate. I like to enjoy to be intimate with other people, but it’s not something i NEED. We just feel secure enough to explore dating with other people too, because it’s fun, exciting and enriching.

When i read through the jealousy workbook, every section tells me i am monogamous and i would be happier in a monogamous relationship. I am not sure i would agree with this. I enjoy being nonmono, and it has enriched my relationship with my partner: we communicate more and better, we appreciate each other more and we grew closer together. It has been difficult, especially for me because i still experience jealousy and anxiety when my partner is dating with other people, while i do feel fully secure in our relationship.. i don’t have a single doubt that he would leave me for someone else.

How did you experience the jealousy workbook, if you have read it? Was it accurate or not?

I’m curious about your opinions :)