My wife and I have been together for over 15 years we are high school sweethearts. We have always communicated very well and had a blast this far in our lives. We first identified as those dastardly “unicorn hunters” as my wife never really had an interest in other men. Over the years we had a long term third that we truly thought we would be committed to forever but sadly things fell apart and she choose to leave. There’s a lot more juicy details and toxic info about but it’s in the past and after over a year almost 2 we have healed and moved on. However now that we are back looking we have come across some many others that hide he fact that they are in a relationship and just looking for a female to hook up with or catfish just pretending to be woman. We also have been told by many woman that they just don’t do couples any more because of a bad situation in the past. I know I’m ranting or venting I just don’t understand anymore where one can find like minded people that want real relationships vs random hook ups. My other question is it better to have separate accounts and simply say you are poly rather than in a relationship? Might edit this more later currently just rambling on!