I’ve posted a couple times regarding my polyamory drama, which seems to be never ending.

I’d just like some thoughts: Wife in married couple with whom I am involved with (more so w/ the husband bc the wife decided she wanted to pursue someone else), ends her relationship w/ her partner (not the husband) bc she feels she has to “plan too much to make it work and it takes the fun out of it” and says she’s no longer interested in dating anyone else, yet her husband catches her kissing/making-out (they’re arguing over the word choice...) with said partner after returning from taking me home - at her request bc she wasn’t ready to leave the establishment yet. Wife states she was “really drunk” and that’s why she kissed him, husband is very confused and upset.

Thoughts? Advice?