I recently posted about a spat my partners and I had about exclusivity, and in my mind it was understood that we all decided that it was ok to play outside the triad, for me especially bc I'm the "unicorn." Well, I went to the bar with my partners on Friday night, drinks were had. I was at the bar with my gf, and while there a couple of men started talking to me (they were also trying to engage with her, I tried to introduce her but she was chatting up the bartender). So the boys and I were talking for a bit, all the while I had my arm around her waist. When she realized who I'd been talking to she leaned in toward me and said, "Aren't you here with me?" I wasn't really sure how to act, I smiled at the boys and walked back to our table at the bar. I haven't brought it up yet, I'm not sure if I am overreacting or not. Just looking for some advice.