Let me give a little bit of background before going into my question and why I came here. My husband and I were monogamous until our 10th anniversary. We have always been open with each other about sexual fantasies and many other things. Just something that works for us. I am lucky enough to know that we are so open that we set rules and we strictly stick by them. He usually lets me set up dates and I have watched him turn away women if they show interest only in him and not in me as well. Yes something that is a little different about us is that I am bisexual and he is straight. So we share our dates.

Recently, we seem to be running out of the pool of dating material. Our last girl friend lasted 2 years but since then we just can't find someone that fits both of us. We have been married for the last 13 years and would love to have a second and third wife but we just keep running into dead ends. (We live in Europe) Does anyone have any tips?