Hey everyone!

So, my toxic partner of an ex sent me a message on Get over this past week wanting to mend fences and attempt to be friends again.

This is an ex that encouraged me to keep secrets from my primary partner. This was two years ago that we broke up.

As of today, I replied to her, after consulting my small tribe. I told her that friendship was impossible for us due to the faults on all sides and the hurt on all sides for us to truly have anywhere near a meaningful relationship. I did state that while I have not forgotten what she did, I have forgiven her for what she did.

I can now fully begin healing from the damage she caused and move forward with my life.