tl;dr: SHE CANCELED TONIGHTS PLANS AT THE LAST MINUTE.

Hey everyone, I’m in the early stages of dating someone who’s in an open/poly marriage, and I’m struggling to figure out if I’m overreacting here.

We made plans to spend tonight together, and I cleared my Thursday for it. But earlier today, she told me she’s driving up to Madison tonight with her husband because she doesn’t want to drive alone tomorrow (even though they have two cars). She said her schedule has been fluctuating and offered to reschedule for us to hang the whole afternoon and evening on Saturday, but I can’t help feeling like she’s not prioritizing me or valuing my time.

I know early dating isn’t always smooth, but this hurts because I feel like if she really wanted to see me, she’d have driven separately and stuck to our plans. Instead, I’m left feeling like an afterthought.

Am I overreacting, or does this reflect where I stand in her life? I’m trying to keep things fun and light, but it’s hard when I feel this disappointed