Well I've struggled for a while with my wife being poly. I've made a few posts here about it. Some of you have told me that it's ok to not be ok with it. I finally admitted I'm not OK with it. After some back and forth my wife decided we're incompatible. I'm currently staying at a friend's house while I figure out where to go from here.

13 year relationship with a 10yo kid, gone. Just like that. I gave everything I had to give and it just wasn't enough. She told me I haven't done anything wrong I just can't give her what she wants. I want to be mad, but there's no point. I hope she finds what's she's looking for in this lifestyle.

Since I'm no longer trying to figure out how to be OK with her being poly there is no need for me to continue being here so this will be my last post.