I’ve felt for a while that my partner prefers her other partner (meta) over me.

Today I’d sent her some replies to her texts last night and said that I knew she was busy so don’t worry about replying until later.

Her meta randomly popped in to see me just now. His phone pings. It’s our partner texting him. He sends a pic of us and she texts him back and also says that’s she’s free the first week of jan.

I’m just feeling down that she didn’t even say she’d text me later or respond to my texts this morning but she’s busy arranging when she’s seeing him. Happily texting him.

I feel like asking her if I’m a priority to her? Would it be fine to just ask her that?