I (M54) have been in a polly relationship for almost two years. I started dating a woman (call her A) that had other boyfriends, and formed a tight relationship, and decided poly wasn't so bad. I see her multiple times a week, every other week, on weekdays. (When she has her kids there are no dates or overnights, but me or my meta might drop by, her kids are aware mom has two boyfriends) Since I first started dating her, I found another partner shortly after (Call her B), who is mono to me and loves to see me every Saturday.

Any more I almost have no need for a calendar. I get to see A on Monday or Tuesday, and again Wednesday or Thursday, depending on her, the meta amd kids. B is only on Saturdays because of her work and family. This leaves Friday open for friends, and sometimes other dates.

It's just... too simple? This isn't an arrangement I made or asked for, it just kinda fell into place with A and Bs life schedules.

When I first decided I was going to try poly, my poly friends kept telling me what a nightmare scheduling is. But it isn't. I just need to know if I'm starting with A Monday or Tuesday (or she has the kids) and I know my schedule for the week.

Is it that easy for anyone else or am I just lucky compared to my friends that have been in the poly world far longer than me?