Hey guys! I'm pretty new to poly life, 1 year active poly. Things have been great. I was able to come out to my family without them judging me. This made transitioning a whole lot easier. Since then I've had 3 partners. 2 of them were not poly. The one that is poly was very eager and willing to talk to me about STDs while the other 2 were more dismissive of the topic. I think that's what makes me love this life style so much. Everyone is so forward and open. We can expect honestly without someone just trying to gain a notch on their belt. I dropped both my non poly partners because of this. That said, can we discuss everyone's methods on addressing these discussions. I'd love to here from the more experienced polycules. What rules do you all follow to protect you and your lovers?