I’m seeing one of my partners for around 6 months now. Love him dearly. Overall top notch human being. Not sure if I have ever connected with anyone on so many levels. Spiritually, outlook on life, the way we both enjoy certain activities and we could talk for days without running out of interesting subjects. We agree on so many things yet would challenge each other on others (in a healthy way)… I would objectively say my sex drive is pretty high, but for some reason not with him. Feels like I lack physical desire for him, even though both have similar preferences and I objectively find him attractive. There is just something about our physical intimacy that lately has been giving me an unexplainable ‘no’ in my body. It feels like I have to decide to be willing rather than being able to let loose and let my body lead the way. As i haven’t experienced that situation before it feels pretty tricky to have a conversation with him about it. Anyone went through something similar? Have some sort of a guidance on how to or maybe is there something on my part that I have to figure out/think about that I haven’t yet thought of?