What if I think my meta is a jerk?

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Usually I can see the humanity in a meta, and find a way to love them in a way that helps me.

But my latest situation is that I think my meta is abusive, not nice- and it fills my veins with poison to think about them.

How do I cope? I can easily avoid them. I can’t easily avoid thinking about them.

Help? I’m trying to stay in my lane. But it hurts to think about my partner being close with someone they are being treated poorly by. They make generous excuses for the bad behaviour… and I’m not willing to do that. I also know it’s not my job to make them see it.

Gah.

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