Earlier, I had an amazing heart-to-heart with my wife. She often goes through periods of self-reflection and, sometimes, depression. I will often check in on her mental well-being because she doesn't engage in polyamory as I do. My feelings for her have not waned in the slightest, despite falling in love with my girlfriend. When I asked her how she was feeling today, she said she was so happy that I was happy. That me being happy was like a weight lifting off of her, as it is something she doesn't need to worry about any longer.

She then proceeded to tell me about a sexy fantasy she had (she used to swing years ago) and how she wants to get back to that lifestyle eventually. It's not now. It may not be for a while. But I'm thrilled that she has this drive and a direction now.

Compersion is... well, I don't think there's a better feeling, honestly, aside from love itself!

All you lovely people: make sure to check in on your significant others from time to time. Don't take any of this for granted.