So my meta texts me and I find it quite a lot of information shared. I’ve raised something before and it just ended up me looking like the bad guy so I don’t quite know if I am here again or not. For info, me, meta and my partner have had a threesome before.

The thing I’m bothered about is meta text me and asked for a pic of me and the second sex toy I used on my partner a few nights ago. I just found this so much info and I’m guessing she gave him a blow by blow account for him to be requesting something so specific.

I don’t hear such details about their sex life as my partner says she wants to protect me. I have said in the past about being jealous. I also find it their time and it’s personal to them.

Now I feel if I raise it, I will have broken meta’s trust by talking about something in one of our conversations however I’ve never told my partner I’m happy for our sex life to be discussed. I also find it odd to discuss that level.

I haven’t quite figured it out in my head but wondered what others thought?