There has been this reoccuring issue where something or another breeds jealousy or resentment in my throuple, and I was wondering how you deal with discussing Jealousy or other issues that revolve around fearing one person isnt as in love with you as they say they are.

I like to believe that we are open communicators, but every now and then something happens where one of us will just not feel as secure in the relationship and one of my partners will outright express that she doesnt believe one of us - watching it happen between my partners makes me feel very insecure in how we care for eachother and it just makes me feel like things are being swept under the rug and not actually talked through - do you have issues with jealousy in your relationship and if so, how do you usually deal with it?

It doesnt 'help' that we are all autistic, I have autism/adhd and one of my partners has bpd