Hello all! I am new to the sub, and new to non-monogamy/polyamory. About 6 months ago I left my monogamous relationship to maybe pursue this type of relationship style. And I've come to a point where I'm not really sure if it's even for me I suppose. I am single, and have been seeing this person who is in an open relationship with her partner. We've gotten really close and the feelings are there. But it feels wrong or unfair to do something with someone else. We are not officially dating or anything as we are kinda doing whatever comes natural, a go with the flow type of feel. Is this normal? I feel like it would be normal for someone whos been monogamous all their life to suddenly change things with no direction. I really like this person I've been seeing, but it genuinely feels wrong to date anyone else, and I'm not sure if its a monogamous mindset that I've had my whole life, or if it genuinely isn't for me. Or maybe should I be established with this person first, and then seek out additional partners? I'm confused. Any advice from experienced people who have been practicing polyamory for years would be beneficial just so I can get a grasp on what is going through my head would be greatly appreciated!