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For agreements, are they always even?
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Iā€™m going to a sex club with my husband. I also have a boyfriend. I am bi-curious.

Husband and boyfriend are cool with me sexually interacting with women. For me to do the same with men, feels harder for them. Ok. I have two men in my life, thatā€™s fine. Itā€™s not a hard no, just a thing to work through if it comes up.

Husband and boyfriend are straight. They want the option to sexually interact with other women at sex clubs. No interest in men. I have feelings about that, and could work through it, sure. Same as they could regarding me and men.

So how do we make agreements that feel fair? I donā€™t want a ā€œvagina for me, but not for theeā€ thing to happen. I could use some guidance.

Edited to add: the issue for me is I donā€™t know that I want to watch.

I also love the advice I got about not making rules based upon gender. That helps a lot!

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