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Iām going to a sex club with my husband. I also have a boyfriend. I am bi-curious.
Husband and boyfriend are cool with me sexually interacting with women. For me to do the same with men, feels harder for them. Ok. I have two men in my life, thatās fine. Itās not a hard no, just a thing to work through if it comes up.
Husband and boyfriend are straight. They want the option to sexually interact with other women at sex clubs. No interest in men. I have feelings about that, and could work through it, sure. Same as they could regarding me and men.
So how do we make agreements that feel fair? I donāt want a āvagina for me, but not for theeā thing to happen. I could use some guidance.
Edited to add: the issue for me is I donāt know that I want to watch.
I also love the advice I got about not making rules based upon gender. That helps a lot!
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