We all know that talking about sexual health is important! But one conversation I have noticed that doesn't get talked about enough prior to it actually happening: Accidental Pregnancy.

Make sure that if you are having P in V intercourse that you have this discussion with every partner. What happens if you get pregnant? What happens if you get your non nesting partner pregnant?

There are a lot of things that people expect to happen, but until you have the discussions you don't know.

Even if you take precautions, accidents happen. People get pregnant even if they use contraception.

It breaks my heart when I see the "my wife is pregnant and it may not be mine" or "my husband got his girlfriend pregnant" posts. It's clear this wasn't discussed. It should always be discussed.

I have an IUD. But, I make it clear before I have sex with anyone that if I get pregnant I am keeping it, regardless of who the father is. I've had people assume since I was prochoice that I would have an abortion. That is not the case.

Anyways, this was just on my mind.