This post

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/s/NwJKFRk6Fh

Got me thinking.

Why didn’t OP recognize that sopo people are partnered as well?

I mean, I think that maybe the OP misspoke, and meant highly coupled, because honestly, I’m sopo and I feel like I am .highly partnered because I’m saturated. Utterly.

So, highly coupled /married people, how big of a part do you want in your partner’s life, eventually?

And how differently do you see that playing out if you partnered with someone who was sopo?

And do you take into account the possible long term, committed relationships that your sopo partner may have? And how those may rub up against your partnership with your solo poly partner?