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Iām struggling with figuring out what / why Iām feeling and would appreciate some advice. My partner says things like āIād be perfectly fine without you, I donāt need a relationship, if I wasnāt with you I wouldnāt be with anyone, Iām not attached to outcomes, just enjoying it for what it isā. While I agree in theory (I lean toward RA) it also makes me feel a bit icky, combined with the fact that my partner is avoidant, doesnāt let emotions out, and communicates like a robot. It makes me feel like they are so guarded that their heart isnāt even in the relationship. On paper itās āidealā - no drama or jealousy. But if Iām being honest with myself, I feel like something is missing from the relationship.
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