I’m struggling with figuring out what / why I’m feeling and would appreciate some advice. My partner says things like “I’d be perfectly fine without you, I don’t need a relationship, if I wasn’t with you I wouldn’t be with anyone, I’m not attached to outcomes, just enjoying it for what it is”. While I agree in theory (I lean toward RA) it also makes me feel a bit icky, combined with the fact that my partner is avoidant, doesn’t let emotions out, and communicates like a robot. It makes me feel like they are so guarded that their heart isn’t even in the relationship. On paper it’s “ideal” - no drama or jealousy. But if I’m being honest with myself, I feel like something is missing from the relationship.