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I am very excited to meet my metamour. My partner and I have been mentioning what we want and the idea of me and the meta being friends/ friendly and being social and interacting with each other (being at the same party, or watching movies together) I feel so eager! A new friend. I feel like from what I know of her and how great my relationship is with our shared partner that it will be so lovely. She has another partner herself and has been nothing but supportive. I would love to hear any advice or positive expereinces of meeting your meta for the first time (in an intentional way, if you've sort of met before or knew of each other)
edit: after reading everyone telling me to slow down, maybe i should have mentioned that the feeling (from what our hinge has expressed) is mutual, that was part of mine and the hinge’s conversation of imagining what we want and the idea of me and meta being friends. we have mutual friends and we have been at the same parties and events and they both spend a lot of time together w our mutual good friend- so i feel like i have ground to expect us to be somewhat compatible and there doesn’t seem to be any barriers/ points of obstacles or massive unknown. and i did say friends/ OR friendly. hinge has expressed interest in us all spend casual time together and that comes from an understanding of meta’s wants and interests and comfort.
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