Hello ! Long time lurker first time poster (lmao) and I have some questions for people with experience going from ENM to polyamory !

My partner and I have been ENM for the entirety of our relationship. He has a couple FWBs, some that are quite close friends, however, we’ve always had a “monogamish” relationship. My partner has lately been hanging out with a particular FWB a lot, and it seems as though the feelings are growing, which honestly makes me so happy because I’ve always believed more love in the world is a net positive !

Personally my sex drive has diminished as I’ve begun my transition, and for a while I’ve been wanting to explore what it would be like to date while also being with my partner. It seems like such a small shift, going from ENM to poly, even though I know it isn’t. Regardless I want to have a discussion with my partner without making it seem like I’m dissatisfied with our relationship because it’s quite the opposite. The idea of him having another/other partner(s) makes me happy and I want that for both of us !

Anyway, any tips/experiences would be greatly appreciated !

Thanks for reading ✨✨✨