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Partner of 10 years keeps pushing forward seeing people that he KNOWS have hurt & wronged me emotionally...
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Hi all, long time lurker, 1st time posting. 😋

Jumping right in, as the title says he knows these people have mistreated me and still insists on seeing them. (2 people in particular) I've done my due diligence communicating my feelings & how I was hurt. However, it doesn't seem to even make him flinch & by the way he talks & acts about it, it very much feels as though my feelings aren't being taken seriously, nor respected and validated. It gives me "oh well" energy.

So, even though it feels like I know how I feel about it and/or what it probably means in regards to how my partner feels toward me, I don't think I want to admit it to myself and I'd like some outside perspective / 2nd opinion(s) to help get this out of my brain and hopefully some further clarity of mind. I've been mulling this over for quite a while now and feel stuck. Any help is greatly appreciated and happy to answer questions for further context/clarification. 😅🙏

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