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One partner and poly sometimes feels like faking it
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Hi! I would like some support and your point of view on this topic. I found myself recently after some bad relationships and breakups to be with one partner. I got so used to have multiple partners and juggling my life that now everything feels way slower. Don't misunderstand me, I enjoy in a way the chill of not scheduling but sometimes I spiral a bit into feeling like a fake polyamorous person. I know that being poly is about your mindset towards love and bonds but at the same time it's like I am not enjoying the good sides of it, meaning sharing my love with multiple people. Idk it might be that I am still fresh from the last breakup but also I feel kinda burned out, my trust into opening up and dedicate some of my time and energies to new people has decreased, which makes me think I would feel more comfortable being with my current one partner. I am still looking around but my will to just see how it goes with new people is way lower that before. Idk if I gave you the right idea. Has anybody experienced this before or is experiencing it now? How do you cope with those feelings of being an imposter?

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