Just came here to say that I highly encourage y’all to set boundaries for yourself & learn the difference between ‘dating’ versus a ‘relationship’.

For those who are married and happen to be new to the poly community, I highly encourage you to do your research and have frequent discussions with each other on what your boundaries are when it comes to dating others. For example, dating together and/or seperately. Parallel polyamory vs kitchen top or garden. I highly encourage you to have the conversation of poly vs open BEFORE you ever find someone worth being poly with.

Additionally, please refrain from using polyamory to avoid fixing your broken marriage. Respectfully, just get a fucking divorce & stop using others as pawns.

Lastly, don’t say you’re open to poly relationships if you don’t know how to show up when it’s time to be a fucking partner outside of mediocre sex.

That is all. Thanks for your time.