So I got this thought recently. Polyamory is seen and portrayed as something that humans are driven to naturally, that without social constructs and mono normativity society would turn to polyamory because we are made to love more than one person etc. Still I have been through NRE and seen many people, even on this reddit, getting into it and having their brain and body telling them that the only person they really love and that they really need, the one they are meant to be is the one they are in NRE with. So biologically NRE is pushing us to be mono in a sense, getting us to focus on one, for some even abandoning other meaningful connections and making bad choices in the middle of it. And sure some people regret doing that later but still, if we are tending so much towards polyamory why do you think NRE is going the opposite direction? If we were naturally poly driven wouldn't NRE push us to feel high with more than one person at a time? From what I read, most people experienced in polyamory dislike to be in NRE and can tune it down, but the feeling is still present. So what do you people think? Are we really naturally poly or are all fighting against nature push to get more love in our lives?