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X factor fading?

I connected with a guy about a month ago. Due to travel we couldnā€™t meet for a few weeks but we texted and talked almost every day for a few weeks.

When we finally met it was amazing and felt so great. And we kissed the first night andā€¦absolute fireworks.

We saw each other 2 more times that same week and took things to sexual level. It was pretty goodā€¦not stellar but definitely a solid place to start.

Weā€™ve continued to talk daily but the last few conversations have felt a little strange. Almost awkward. Itā€™s like that initial rhythm and back and forth we had is kind of missing. Iā€™m still happy to talk with him but I feel like I stumble over my words. And something just feels ā€œoffā€

We are hanging out again soon. He said he wanted to something out of the house since the last couple times we hung out were just at home andā€¦having sex. So I think maybe heā€™s feeling too like things are a little off. He mentioned that we kind of did things backwards.

So what do I do? Did I ruin things by sleeping together too soon? Is it possible to get back that ā€œeverything feels rightā€ feeling? Or are we just not super compatible except as a short term fling.

I really was feeling like I met someone with long term potentialā€¦Iā€™ll be disappointed if it fizzles too quickly.

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