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I broke up with my partner of nearly 6 years almost 8 months ago. Over the weekend, I was working an event where another community partner was giving out backpacks with school supplies for kids. I was trying to be a nice human by texting my ex to let them know about the event because I knew their kiddo could benefit.
Instead of just ignoring me or saying thanks, my ex decided to play the “who is this? I don’t have this number in my phone game” 😑 I told them who it was and they proceeded to tell me thanks, but then went off on a rant about how their kiddo has been asking for me daily. They followed up with “I’m not trying to run this in your face but I’m just saying that I don’t care what you did to me, but she misses you and asks for you all the time.” I feel kiddo is too young to remember me after the first month or so, but you never know. I just hate how they immediately started playing games then tried to manipulate me and use their kiddo as ammo. Like… what the heck?! Whyyy do you have to make life so difficult? It really just makes me regret trying to do something nice for kiddo, but I still care about the little, you know? I was trying to be helpful and it bit me in the ass.
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