I , solopoly, find myself only attracted to certain men. And before everyone attacks and says its the personality that matters... I would love if I could be attracted to personality, problem would be solved! I have always been attracted to, for lack of a better term, more primal-looking men and have dated 90% musicians and guys with long hair in my lifetime.

My only partner now, who is actually not a musician but has long dreads and was also solopoly, just decided to nest with his mono-girlfriend and I'm feeling neglected. I would love to add a partner so I can get some of my needs met, but I have been actively looking but not finding anyone I am interested in. And to top it off, I don't have family near and my friends are rather busy with their own lives so plans with me if any are made, are often last-minute cancelled. I am feeling rather down and not sure what to do. Anyone else ever feel this way, any tips on how to get over this slump would be appreciated :)