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My partner (m23) and I (m23) have been together for about two years. I come from a very religious Christian background. I’ve struggled for years to fight for acceptance as being a gay man from my family. I’ve only just this year told them about having a boyfriend, it was pretty messy and caused me a lot of grief, but it’s finally okay with them now. My partner and I are monogamous atm but we are working on transitioning our relationship to polyamory. One of my biggest fears is that I just won’t be able to do this properly with all the grief I get from my family. Obviously I could just not tell them. But what do I do if/when I find another partner. I wouldn’t be able to share them with my family. There would be a really weird dynamic then because my current partner would be able to be known and loved by my family but any others would have to be kept hidden, and I’m just worried that this would be really unfair/hurtful for anyone else to be involved with. Anyone have any advice for this topic? I’m worried that this is gonna stop me from ever being able to have ‘fully fledged’ poly relationships
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