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Hi, I have a weird situation that I am currently supporting a friend through.

My friend is also my ex, she's a sexual and nowadays has made it clear to really everyone she knows, she isn't really dating and more making friends.

This polyamorous group she met at work that she has regular game nights with though, have been trying to set her up with the husband of the group and recently have been setting weird boundaries for her to follow, telling her it's weird that I'm still in her life at all, she's even being ambushed with unannounced "date days".

She's going to sit them down and explain that she isn't interested and emphasize her a-sexuality (sex is a very active part of the poly group.) And I'm worried they're not going to respond well to rejection as they've already tried to ignore my friends comforts and boundaries for their own wants.

So far me and my friend agreed we all want eachother to get along and be friends so that we all have more people to hang out with and things to do.

Through this I've just been supportive and I even expressed my concern and she feels that they're all nice enough to understand and come around but understands my worry.

What should I do if this group won't take no for an answer from my friend?

Edit: Everyone has given me honestly great advice, thank you all really.

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