Hello all! I started my polyamorous journey about 2 months ago (though I've been ENM for like 3 years). All of my dating has generally come from an in-person poly group and a few swinging groups that I've been in for some time. Since the beginning of my journey I've really gone gung ho on embracing the lifestyle, improving my own compersion, and working on myself to be the best I can be.

I started dating two women we will call them Kyra and Linda. Kyra brought me into the poly world essentially and we've been pretty close. We haven't really gone down the relationship road and I'm not sure we will, but maybe! Additionally, we have Linda who I met a few weeks ago. Linda is amazing! She's beautiful, compassionate, fun to be around, and we are very similar ideologically. I get along very well with her husband too. I'm 100% sure I will be asking her to be my first poly girlfriend (yay!!) and its very exciting.

Here's my dilemma. Linda and I have connected extraordinarily well, whether in public, private or at parties we are extremely affectionate towards each other. I've also met a lot of people at poly/LS parties and I'm getting a bit overwhelmed. As of right now I have a date every night for the next week and a half (all different people). I don't want to turn people down necessarily (there are definitely a few I'm interested as well) however I'm deeply concerned about what would happen if I dated multiple women within the same group so to speak, especially starting at the same time, and I don't know what to do about being so saturated its so new to me!!

Any recommendations on what I should do? Is there a way to pull back without hurting feelings? Should I just all in on these opportunities?