I have been talking to someone online for a few months (in a D/s style dynamic) and he is poly. He has 2 girlfriends/subs and if we meet in person this would be a consideration for us as well. I am very interested in him and love the positive aspects I've heard about poly relationships and his reasons for being in it. I just got out of a 10 year monogamous relationship and am open to exploring all types of new things. I am a naturally very jealous and possessive person but I would like to explore the possibility of a poly relationship as a form of growth and evolution as a person and my capacity for love and joy. I don't know if I can handle it, if I can overcome how I've been conditioned my whole life but I would like to give myself a fair shot. Any advice, words of wisdom or resources are greatly appreciated!