hi! so i’ve been seeing this couple for a little while, and i guess we have a V triady situation going on? i’m not in a relationship w the both of them but rather each of them individually. we do 3somes sometimes, but not by norm, and we hang out together and do fun shit, but they are unit, and me and each of them individually are other units. no unicorn hunting. no harem. none of that shit. met them as a couple, opted by them individually.

now that part’s explained, imma get into the question. so like, this hasn’t been communicated in a comparing or wtvr way, just as a fact, that because of busy lives and low libido, they don’t have THAT much sex (i’d still be pretty sure they have sex around 10x a month tho, so not a LOT, but also not uncommon) up until there all good. but why are these people so godamn horny around me? we are long distance so they on one side, me on the other. i’m closer to him, we text and sext almost everyday, and being a LITTLE frisky gets him feral. everytime i flirt with her she goes bananas. she just texted me a pic and i said that her lipstick is nice and that i want her to share (by kissing me) and she said she was gonna obsses over that thought all day? she then followed it up by saying it was “tipping point” in horniness bcs she’s been feeling suuuper horny this week. GIRL U HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND HE’S HOT AS FUCK AND I KNOW HE’S HORNY BCS IM TALKING TO HIM ALL DAY. LIKE PLEASE WHY DONT THEY FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF EACHOTHER. it’s not even that i feel bad because i feel like a toy or just sexual of whatever the fuck i just don’t understand. they are horny all day. why don’t they fuck each other more.

i just feel they have fallen a bit into roomates, and it kinda makes me sad to think they are being free w me instead of finding that within each other. i kinda want to help, is that so bad? i want to remind them it’s sexy to flirt, sext, provoque. i want them to be able to discover within each other what they find w me. i’m a very open and sexual person, that looooves to provoque, and i’m good at it!! but i feel like if they did what i do, they would be hornier for each other!!! how/should i help my partners find a bit more of the flame between them?