For context I’m dating a married couple we’re all good with our relationships but I recently have no been talking to another person, well say Justin, who has a partner but is poly. I have spoken to both my partners about Justin and how we would like to possibly start something and see where it goes. The issues I’m having is how to go about it with everyone. My partners think we should all talk together, like is, Justin and they’re partner. I don’t think that’s the best way to go about it but don’t know what to do or say. Justin’s partner has said they’re okay with us and my partners have so I’m not sure why they want to talk with everyone like that I don’t think that’s the right way to do this.