My ex has told me that they are in a polyamorous relationship with a guy, who is also in a relationship with another lady with whom I do not know the name of. Being a fairly new person to the whole situation and very open to the ideals of a polyamorous relationship. I am confused about what it would mean? I do still have feelings for my ex I don't think I am ready for a relationship, yeah I enjoy hanging out with her and having sex with her! She claims this is basically a relationship I do not see it that way hence the confusion. I've asked her for clarification, yet she doesn't give me any information. Does she want me only for sex?