I have never been approached about being involved in a polyamorous relationship before. I’ve screwed a couple married chicks in the past, but Susan is looking for a second love.

I had seen Susan’s profile on Hinge a few days ago. I read it and hit the X. Well, low and behold, she liked my profile the next day. She’s a really attractive lady. I waited a little while and matched with her. We exchanged pleasantries and then I asked what exactly she was looking for. She wants a long term second. She wants someone to hang out with her, her husband (Michael) and his girlfriend (Kristi) at her marital home. Michael’s girlfriend is also in a polyamorous relationship. Kristi is married and her husband has his own girlfriend.

I told Susan I was interested in the possibility, but wasn’t interested in threesomes, etc. She said there wouldn’t be any threesomes and it wasn’t really about sex it was about love. She said the sex would be a part of the relationship. We decided on a time to talk. I told her I had questions. One of which was how much time she was willing to dedicate to me. Susan said she was looking for someone that could spend 2-3 nights per week with her.

I’ll admit I’ve lived a pretty sheltered life. I also live in an extremely conservative area, so there really isn’t a lot of talk about this sort of arrangement.

In our initial conversation I told Susan I wanted to meet her alone before I met Michael to make sure I was comfortable with her first. She agreed. We set up a dinner date for tomorrow night. We also set up a time for me to call her and chat. We had that phone call last night. We seemed to get along well. Who knows how this will turn out. 🤷🏼‍♂️