I don't understand... And I know I shouldn't care much. He is in a relationship and practicing ENM and said that their boundary is polyamory. So he and his partner don't practice poly. All fine, of course. And he said, he thinks that poly is rooting from FOMO. Then I tried to explain how it's not, without getting defensive. He asked how many people I see, and I said the number. I also added that I go to hook ups sometimes as well. He asked how I find time, how that is possible, and he thinks that I have FOMO. And he thinks all is bit slutty (sorry for the word). Of course I unmatched him, but I got frustrated. That happened last week as well, a guy in an open relationship wants to meet me and asked how many partners I have, and when I said, he said that he wants someone purely single(!?). Am I doing something wrong here? I know I shouldn't care much, but still.. those apps are not poly friendly.