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Question: my fiancé (f21) and I (m22) have had some discussions of opening our relationship up and having a girlfriend. So from what I understand what we are looking for is specifically a triad. We truly do want her to be part of the relationship as a whole, not “under” us or anything like that. The part that we are nervous about is how to go about finding said person. We want to do it in a respectful way. From yalls experience is it better for her to approach the girl first? Us together? We have never looked for someone to date before and don’t want to risk leading someone on. Are there apps or places where people who are looking to be in that kind of relationship tend to conglomerate? Thank you!

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