Hi I could use some advice. So I'm (48f) married to "David" (49m) and we opened our relationship in November..so very new to all of this. It has been going very well for David and me. We love each other tons and have even better sex which there was never a lack of before.

I never intended to catch feelings but here I am like a lovesick puppy- I caught NRE for Chris my FWB. I miss him a lot because I'm not going to see him for over two weeks. But I have an amazing husband, angelic teen children, many adorable pets, some very close and amazing friends, a reasonably close relationship with my family (ok not my mom but oh well)...oh and of course Bill my very sweet other FWB.

So why do I miss Chris so much? When will this stop? Is the high worth the pain? I try to shield David from the NRE but I did accidentally hurt his feelings last night b.c I missed Chris. It just doesn't make any sense that I have a perfect life but I'm pining away. I'm tempted to just stop seeing Chris. It hurts so much to miss him.

Any advice experienced poly people?