So I'm going on valentines #2 with both my husband and my boyfriend and I'm internally struggling with how I'm handling it.

The current plan is to do day of and all that with my husband. It's mid-week, we've got kids and school and all that so it's made sense. We're staying in and cooking and watching some sappy movie and that whole thing. Then on Friday night I'm going out with my boyfriend and spending the night as his place.

I feel like my boyfriend is getting the special "valentines" date/experience because we're going out and all that but it's after the fact and I'm spending day - of with my husband.

Any interesting solutions or negative experiences around Vday out there?

Thanks!