No spoilers, I’m still editing my own recap/analysis of the first three episodes (maybe i’ll chuck it somewhere). But one of the stars is a polyamorous relationship coach (which, from what I can see from her Instagram, she seems pretty alright at), and has been doing polyam for 5 years now (some of y’all know I’ve been doing nonmon of various flavors for 5 years as well).

And woah, my god, it’s refreshing to see someone on this show spitting facts and using her experience to cut right to the heart of the worst of the unicorn hunting tendencies. Like, yeah, it’s a UHing show, no shit there’s going to be couple’s privilege to high heaven, but there’s no reason to treat your “thirds” like trash (to those who aren’t watching, you’ll be very unsurprised to know that that’s EXACTLY what is happening in varying shades).

My only complaint is that she’s been so, so, so nice to some of these clowns and they’re taking that for granted. I’d have cussed out at least one of them by now.

edit: lol I’m so steeped in this show’s bullshit I forgot to satirize the bullshit language it uses around unicorn hunting.