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It's not impossible to meet other women online who are interested in you and want online only relationships. Read below all real life experiences.
Here's my advice.
Get to know people for who they're not what they're.
Respect them.
Things happen naturally over time. Sometimes it takes years to completely be cemented.
Sometimes people fall in love with the person and not necessarily the sex.
Example: I'll call her Serenity.
Serenity is a swinger. But over the course of a year we both slowly developed feelings for each other. She identified as straight and she still is however she fell in love with me for me and I fell in love with her over the course of one year. I don't fall in love easily it takes time for me. I also never go by attraction ever. I may like women and men and trans and NB because I don't discriminate however for me personally I fall in love gradually.
Example 2:
All call her Mars.
Mars is bisexual she knows it her husband knows it. We connected we even started having strong feelings for each other and we did for a brief moment start a small online relationship. It wasn't too strong but I assure you we both cared deeply about each other. Mind you all this so far I've met all of them on Facebook. Their husbands knew my fiance knew. I always have open communication with him at all times.
Example 3
Ruka. She's Pan and Polyamorous. Again we met on Facebook over time you guessed it we fell for each other. It didn't last but again not impossible.
I hope this clarify a bit mind you I also had someone who was Pan wanting a relationship with me on Twitter. I just declined though. The world is vast there's so many people in this world that you'll meet throughout your life. Who is anyone to say otherwise. That's my advice and actual real examples from my own personal experiences.
FYI this is why I know I can have an online relationship exclusively with other women. The new thing proposed is my fiance having another partner because for medical reasons I just can't have sex at all. So far we have agreed to some things.
Number one if he were to fall for her and he wants to be monogamy with her we are both ok with that however he's stated he will not even consider another woman if she doesn't accept hell always provide for me in the form of helping me pay for a place to live and my cats expenses. I live off a social security. I had to drop all contacts with my family because they always been abusive. He also said that he will always help me one way or another for me to go to Dr appointments. And be my emergency contact when it comes to Medical stuff and be my power of attorney.
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