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I've been thinking a lot about my comfort with my sexualy and how I wish I was more relaxed to accept all the amaziness that I could be capable of. My husband of 18 years, realized last year, that he's bi-sexual. It's brought us even closer together. I'm happy that he's figuring it out. But there is also the part where we've been together since high-school and he's feeling a little like he's missed an opportunity. I know the poly community is very clear about not opening your relationship just because one partner wants to. And while he wants to experience what being with a man is like, he realizes if our rolls were switched he would also not be comfortable with me being with anyone else. So at this moment we are staying monogamous. So did you all know monogamy was not for you from the beginning or is it something that you become aware of as you mature and really understand who you are as a person? I guess I've been really trying to reflect on how I feel not only about my relationship but also who I am and my sexual comfort zones.
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